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Thursday 29 December 2011

Relationship

As we grow up and make our way down the path of life, we learn new things. One of the most unforgettable events in our life is probably falling in love. Having a crush is normal but taking one step further is another thing. As a teenager myself, I can’t deny the fact that I also tried to be in a relationship, just so curious and compelled to know of what does it feels like to be in love. Well I can tell you one thing; the feeling is simply unexplainable and euphoric.

But let’s be clear about what really happened. Society agreed that as human beings, we all have crushes, and when the right time comes, you’ll be in a situation called ‘puppy love’. One thing about puppy love is that the chance of it surviving is pretty slight and most would end up with heartbreaks. You may lose at dice, but you won’t lose everything; eventually, you’ll gain experience that will make you realize it’s not just about mutual love, it’s also about working things out and to always compromise . But it’s just safe to say that it’s not time yet for us to start a relationship; we have other focus and goals to reach and being in another obligation only confines our maximum potential and commitment in life. The very nature of relationship itself is a drawback, if it works, you’ll get married, if it doesn't, you’ll be enemy (mostly) So for the time being, just reach for the sky and be as successful as you possibly can, the sky is the limit, fly like a bird and sting like the bee, once you had it all, people will come to you and started to get crazy over you.

I know that it doesn’t make sense a bit but heck that’s what emotion is; they’ll leave you bamboozled, twisting and turning and tangled for a few hours before getting you back where you started again. The secret of a happy relationship or marriage is just falling in love again and again, with the same person. And if there are still questions playing in your head, just ask your mom, “Mom, how did you know that Dad was the right one?” Chances are, if you play your cards right, the answer might just be the formula of an eternal love. And don’t worry if you get your heart broken because there’s always someone out there with enough superglue to paste it back in shape.

3 comments:

  1. You have to work out whether your roots are become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day. so jacob. good luck :p

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  2. haha, thanks for your advice :) very meaningful bella :)

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